EVERYTHING is BORROWED

You don’t deserve what you want.

Everything in our lives is borrowed, not owned. Humans just made up ownership. Like children saying “I was here first it’s mine!” What does the universe have to say about “firsties”?

The universe has nothing to say because it’s only humans who have created this “ if I go somewhere first and plant my flag, I can stake a claim to it.”

Epictetus says that, at its foundation, that thinking is fallacious. It’s hubris.

Stay Mindful.

Gritti

Nitti Gritti

Greetings from Chris

Hi there, I’m Chris (Nitti) Gritti and I’m a Mental Health Coach.

Lets just keep this clear and simple for full transparency.

I am not a college educated psychologist nor can I prescribe medications.  I am certified in cognitive behavioral therapy, but the bulk of my knowledge comes from life experience.  Tons and tons of trial and error which equals tons and tons of mistakes.  Those mistakes taught me that radical self acceptance, self love, and core confidence all come from choosing to let go of the victimhood identity and embracing the responsibility of the outcomes of our life choices. 

I’ve found my passion in helping others get on their own team and believe in themselves again. I am not the right Mental Health Coach for everyone, but I might be the right fit for you, so look around. Check out my content on YouTube and IG if you don’t get a clear vibe on me here at the site. No matter what i want to commend you for looking for someone to help you, and I wish you the best in finding the right therapist for you. 

Be Unapologetically You.

It’s okay if people don’t like you.

Mahalo and Aloha,

Chris Gritti

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