InteGritti’s path to Authenticity: Step 4. The Elusive Concept of Fairness

The notion of fairness has intrigued and perplexed humanity for centuries. While humans have strived to create laws and establish principles of equality, the concept of fairness remains an elusive and subjective concept. This essay delves deep into the understanding that fairness, devoid of any cosmic law, is a social construct that exists primarily in the interactions between individuals or groups.

Throughout history, humans have sought to establish systems and laws that promote fairness and equality. From the ancient civilizations to modern democratic societies, the pursuit of fairness has been a recurrent theme. However, despite our collective efforts, no cosmic law of fairness exists to govern the universe. The absence of such a law implies that fairness is a human construct, molded by cultural, societal, and personal beliefs.

While the universe remains apathetic to our claims of unfairness, the concept of fairness finds its roots in the interactions between individuals or groups. When people enter into agreements or transactions, a desire for a balanced, fair trade emerges. This inclination towards reciprocity is deeply ingrained in our mammalian DNA and is a fundamental aspect of human social behavior.

One striking feature of fairness is its subjectivity. What one person considers fair may differ from another's perspective. Cultural, societal, and personal factors significantly influence our understanding of fairness. The absence of a universal standard for fairness allows for diverse interpretations and perceptions, resulting in ongoing debates and disagreements.

While fairness might be subjective, societies have established laws and institutions to address and mitigate the disparities that arise from differing interpretations of fairness. These legal frameworks aim to provide a level playing field and ensure equitable treatment for all individuals. However, even these systems are not immune to criticism, as they reflect the prevailing social norms and values of a particular time and place.

The absence of a cosmic law of fairness necessitates a critical examination of how fairness operates in our lives. It prompts us to question our own biases and assumptions regarding what is fair and just. Understanding that fairness is a human construct encourages empathy and a willingness to consider alternative perspectives, fostering a more inclusive and compassionate society.

In conclusion, fairness is a concept that exists primarily in the interactions between individuals or groups. Devoid of any cosmic law, fairness is subjective and shaped by cultural, societal, and personal beliefs. While societies have attempted to establish legal frameworks to address fairness, our understanding of fairness continues to evolve. Acknowledging the subjectivity of fairness allows us to cultivate empathy and strive for a more equitable and compassionate world, despite the absence of a universal standard.

There is no universal law of fairness. For your own sake I hope you can accept it.

Stay Mindful

InteGritti

Nitti Gritti

Greetings from Chris

Hi there, I’m Chris (Nitti) Gritti and I’m a Mental Health Coach.

Lets just keep this clear and simple for full transparency.

I am not a college educated psychologist nor can I prescribe medications.  I am certified in cognitive behavioral therapy, but the bulk of my knowledge comes from life experience.  Tons and tons of trial and error which equals tons and tons of mistakes.  Those mistakes taught me that radical self acceptance, self love, and core confidence all come from choosing to let go of the victimhood identity and embracing the responsibility of the outcomes of our life choices. 

I’ve found my passion in helping others get on their own team and believe in themselves again. I am not the right Mental Health Coach for everyone, but I might be the right fit for you, so look around. Check out my content on YouTube and IG if you don’t get a clear vibe on me here at the site. No matter what i want to commend you for looking for someone to help you, and I wish you the best in finding the right therapist for you. 

Be Unapologetically You.

It’s okay if people don’t like you.

Mahalo and Aloha,

Chris Gritti

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