Mental filter

When thinking through a mental filter, a person is focusing only on a single aspect of a situation, and filtering out everything else. And this way, they completely ignore everything that disagrees with that detail. Mental filtering plays a big part when it comes to how we judge experiences, which magnify the aspects of past experiences, and then ultimately trigger an automatic response for future events.

by picking out a single negative or positive detail, and focusing on only that, you convince yourself that the whole situation is positive or negative. A person who is overly optimistic, is using a mental filter, and the same is true for an overly pessimistic person.

Both positive and negative filters can lead someone to act irrationally. Remember, mental filtering, like all cognitive distortions, clouds our ability to see situations clearly.

“ it’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.”

-Epictetus- stoic philosopher.

Stay Mindful

Gritti

Nitti Gritti

Greetings from Chris

Hi there, I’m Chris (Nitti) Gritti and I’m a Mental Health Coach.

Lets just keep this clear and simple for full transparency.

I am not a college educated psychologist nor can I prescribe medications.  I am certified in cognitive behavioral therapy, but the bulk of my knowledge comes from life experience.  Tons and tons of trial and error which equals tons and tons of mistakes.  Those mistakes taught me that radical self acceptance, self love, and core confidence all come from choosing to let go of the victimhood identity and embracing the responsibility of the outcomes of our life choices. 

I’ve found my passion in helping others get on their own team and believe in themselves again. I am not the right Mental Health Coach for everyone, but I might be the right fit for you, so look around. Check out my content on YouTube and IG if you don’t get a clear vibe on me here at the site. No matter what i want to commend you for looking for someone to help you, and I wish you the best in finding the right therapist for you. 

Be Unapologetically You.

It’s okay if people don’t like you.

Mahalo and Aloha,

Chris Gritti

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